Sep 6, 2012

Shout out to the grandparents!

Grandparents, Shan-ma's, Papa's, Lola's and Lolo's are on my mind today. 

I believe that my grandparents had just as big a part of raising me as their children did. I am thankful for the positive influence they have had on my 25 years!

Here is a shout out to some of the BEST grandparents a girl could have...


Grandpa and Grandma 'A' 



I am privileged to be part of their family! 
Some things I have learned in the last 25 years from my Amaral grandparents:
Grandma was a strong woman and she taught me that woman can do anything! 
Tapioca pudding is not really as delicious as they might say. 
Dessert after dinner is always a must.
Grandpa taught me how to remove splinters.
Grandpa also taught me how to be stern yet fun.
I have learned the importance of keeping to my commitments.
Hard work always pays off.
Big band music is FUN! 
Labor day = delicious food and fun parades. 
Wake up early or you waste away the day.
Love everyone. 




Shan-ma and Papa 





My Linehan family is funny! I am sure blessed to be part their family! 
Papa taught me to laugh.
Shan-ma taught me all about chocolate! 
St.Patricks day is all about how much green you can put on.
Fish and chips with loads of vinegar is always a good idea.
Hard work and commitment are important.
Animal crackers should always be in the house! 
Christmas is spent best with family.
A 'Caidy day' is a good day. hehe.
AFV, wheel of fortune and jeopardy are some great shows.
Hugs and kisses (even when people don't want to be touched) are essential 
Love everyone.  



At 25 years old I am blessed to still have my Grandpa 'A' and my Shan-ma supporting me and loving me as I travel on this journey known as life! They are some of my biggest fans ... encouraging and loving me through every decision.



Thank you Grandpa and Grandma, Shan-ma and Papa for being some pretty great grandparents. You set the bar pretty high for Grambee and Pepere, but so far they are doing just as great as you all. 

How do you teach young teens the dangers of huffing chemicals when the only reason they started huffing in the first place is because of hunger?

Over the last year and a half I have learned quite a bit about this huffing rugby issue with the street children here in Cebu, particularly with the children we work with.

What I do know:
Most of the kids we work with started huffing because they were hungry
Huffing takes away the pains of hunger
Huffing takes the 'edge' off allowing the person to be able to bare the street life i.e. -- begging and sleeping on the streets
Huffing is a way to fit in with peers 
Huffing induces asthma 
Huffing causes sever lung, vocal cord, liver, heart and brain damage
Huffing can kill a person at anytime

What I do not know:
Why the kids continue to huff after their friend died because of it
When it turns from doing it because of hunger pains to doing it out of habit
Why they do it even when they eat 2-3 meals a day plus all the snacks they want 
I do know know what is it like to live in survival mode 

I get discouraged when I see kids we have been working with for over a year huffing and making poor decisions. But then again, I don't know what it's like to be in their position ... to be in survival mode, struggling to live on a daily basis.

My only hope, my only prayer is that these kids would see something more in life worth living for...that they would see Jesus in the people who ministry to them daily. It's my prayer and hope that they would grasp at the opportunities God puts in their path for a healthier more fruitful life.

It is also my prayer that I would handle situations as a servant of Christ, nothing more and nothing less.



Although I get discouraged about the huffing situation... there is much to be encouraged by in this work. 

For one, the kids have learned that they can trust Ronald and I! We have also learned to trust them! Relationship building takes time and after a year I am just now seeing that trust has formed.

Second, teaching children bible stories with practical application is the best! Just a few days ago I was reading the story of the good Samaritan and the kids understood that God wants us to love all people. When I was finished reading one little girl looked at me and said "like you!" I was overjoyed and can not quite put into words my happiness with her statement.

Third, what is not to love about working with kids all the time!? No matter their age, life situation, addictions, etc. they are still kids and they are still a joy to be with.

818 Ministry/Jesan Center is truly blessed to be working with these children.